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Abstract
The Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire (CFQ) is a specialized self-report instrument developed to quantify and categorize individual differences in friendship styles and social preferences. Comprising 35 items, the scale probes various aspects of relationship dynamics, including the preference for emotional intimacy versus shared activities, the effort dedicated to maintaining friendships, and levels of comfort with social interaction and self-disclosure. The CFQ is primarily utilized in psychological assessment and research, particularly in studies investigating differences in social behavior across various populations, including those involved in neurodiversity research.
Keywords
Friendship style, social interaction, social preference, relationship dynamics, emotional intimacy, self-disclosure, Cambridge, psychological assessment
Authors
SBC (Simon Baron-Cohen), SJW (Sally J. Wheelwright)
Purpose
The primary purpose of the Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire is to measure and delineate the qualitative differences in how individuals initiate, manage, and value their social relationships. It aims to identify distinct patterns of friendship engagement, particularly focusing on whether an individual prioritizes shared activities (instrumental friendship) or emotional intimacy and confiding (expressive friendship). This distinction is critical for understanding varying social needs and social cognition profiles.
The scale serves as a valuable tool for researchers seeking to compare friendship patterns between different groups, offering quantitative data on subjective experiences related to social closeness and preferred communication methods.
Construct
The CFQ measures several interconnected constructs related to social behavior and friendship maintenance. These constructs include:
- Friendship Orientation: The balance between seeking companionship primarily for shared activities versus seeking a friend for emotional support and confiding.
- Social Effort and Maintenance: The reported effort put into maintaining existing relationships versus seeking new ones, and preferences regarding contact frequency.
- Self-Disclosure and Vulnerability: The perceived ease of discussing personal feelings, weaknesses, failures, and achievements with friends and strangers.
- Social Interest: The level of interest in the everyday details and “gossip” concerning both close and casual friends.
- Preferred Communication Modality: Ranking preferences for face-to-face contact, telephone calls, or written correspondence (Email/letters).
Validity
While specific detailed psychometric publications related solely to the CFQ items as presented are typically found within broader research papers, the validity of related measures developed by the Cambridge Autism Research Centre generally rests on demonstrating clear differentiation between clinical and control populations. For the CFQ, construct validity is supported by its capacity to measure hypothesized dimensions of social style, such as the dichotomy between activity-based and confiding relationships, which are theorized to vary significantly across the neurotypical spectrum.
Researchers often establish criterion validity by correlating CFQ scores with established scales measuring related constructs, such as empathy, systemic thinking, or other measures of social competence and attachment style.
Reliability
Specific internal consistency statistics (e.g., Cronbach’s alpha) for the CFQ are typically reported within the academic papers that employ it. Due to its use of both forced-choice and Likert-style ranking items, reliability analysis may focus on subscales derived from factor analysis. High reliability would indicate that the items consistently measure the intended constructs related to an individual’s stable social behavior patterns and friendship preferences.
Factor Analysis
Although the original factor structure is not explicitly provided with the raw items, examination of the questionnaire content suggests that a factor analysis would likely yield distinct subscales corresponding to the core friendship constructs. Potential factors include a dimension of Intimacy/Confiding (relating to emotional depth and problem sharing) and a dimension of Instrumental/Activity Focus (relating to shared hobbies and practical arrangements). Other factors might relate to Social Maintenance Effort or Tolerance for Conflict (as seen in Item 14).
Instrument
Test Type: Self-report Psychological Test/Questionnaire
Format: 35 items, combining forced-choice (dichotomous or trichotomous options) and ranking scales (Likert-type, often 4-7 points).
Language Available: English (Original)
Population Group: General Adult Population, often used in comparative studies involving individuals with variations in social cognition.
Age Group: Adult (The demographic section requests occupation, degree, and age when leaving school).
Population Details: The questionnaire is designed to capture a wide range of individual differences in friendship style, making it applicable to diverse adult populations.
Test Methodology: Paper-and-pencil administration; self-paced completion of closed-ended questions.
Keywords
Friendship quality, social behavior, neurodiversity, relationship maintenance, self-report, social cognition, intimacy, social style
Authors
Author ORCID Identifier: Not specified in source.
Affiliation Email addresses: Not specified in source. (Authors affiliated with the Autism Research Centre, University of Cambridge, UK).
Correspondence Address: Not specified in source.
Permissions & Fee and Test Year
The scale is copyrighted ãSBC/SJW MRC 2000. It was initially developed around the year 2000 under the auspices of the Medical Research Council (MRC). Access for non-commercial academic research use is typically granted via request to the Autism Research Centre (ARC). The instrument is often available for download for research purposes from the official ARC website, provided appropriate copyright acknowledgement is maintained. The original PDF can be downloaded here: http://www.autismresearchcentre.com/arc_tests
Reference’s
- SBC/SJW MRC 2000 (Copyright Holder).
- Autism Research Centre (ARC), University of Cambridge.
Items of the Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire
IMPORTANT: The following scale items must be preserved in their original language and must not be changed in any way.
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a
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I have one or two particular best friends.
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b
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I have several friends who I would call best friends.
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c
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I don’t have anybody who I would call a best friend.
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2
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The most important thing about a friendship is having somebody to confide in.
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b
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The most important thing about a friendship is having somebody to have fun with.
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3
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If I had to pick‚ I would rather have a friend who enjoys doing the same things as me than a friend who feels the same way about life as I do.
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b
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If I had to pick‚ I would rather have a friend who feels the same way about life as I do‚ than a friend who enjoys doing the same things as me.
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4
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I like to be close to people.
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b
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I like to keep my distance from people.
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5
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When I talk with friends on the phone‚ it is usually to make arrangements rather than to chat.
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b
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When I talk with friends on the phone‚ it is usually to chat rather than to make arrangements.
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6
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I tend to think of an activity I want to do and then find somebody to do it with.
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b
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I tend to arrange to meet somebody and then think of something to do.
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7
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I prefer meeting a friend for a specific activity‚ e.g. going to the cinema‚ playing golf.
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b
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I prefer meeting a friend for a chat‚ e.g. at a pub‚ at a café.
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8
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If I moved to a new area‚ I would put more effort into staying in touch with old friends than making new friends.
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b
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If I moved to a new area‚ I would put more effort into making new friends than staying in touch with old friends.
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9
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My friends value me more as someone who is a support to them than as someone to have fun with.
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My friends value me more as someone to have fun with than as someone who is a support to them.
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10
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If a friend had a problem‚ I would be better at discussing their feelings about the problem than coming up with practical solutions
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b
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If a friend had a problem‚ I would be better at coming up with practical solutions than discussing their feelings about the problem.
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11
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If a friend was having personal problems‚ I would wait for them to contact me as I wouldn’t want to interfere.
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b
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If a friend was having personal problems‚ I would contact them to discuss the problem.
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12
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When I have a personal problem‚ I feel that it is better to work it out on my own.
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b
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When I have a personal problem‚ I feel that it is better to share it with a friend.
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c
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When I have a personal problem‚ I feel that it is better to try and forget about it.
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13
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If I have to say something critical to a friend‚ I think it’s best to broach the subject gently.
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b
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If I have to say something critical to a friend‚ I think it’s best to just come right out and say it.
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14
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If I fell out with a good friend and I thought that I hadn’t done anything wrong‚ I would
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do whatever it takes to repair the relationship.
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b
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be willing to make the first move‚ as long as they reciprocated
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c
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be willing to sort out the problem‚ if they made the first move.
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d
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not feel able to be their close friend anymore.
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15
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My ideal working space would be
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in an office on my own‚ without any visitors during the day.
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in an office on my own‚ with an occasional visitor during the day
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c
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in an office with one or two others.
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in an open plan office.
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For the next set of questions‚ please tick the box to indicate your answer.
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How easy do you find discussing your feelings with your friends?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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17
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How easy would you find it to discuss your feelings with a stranger?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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18
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In terms of personality‚ how similar to your friends do you tend to be?
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Very similar
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Quite similar
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Not very similar
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Very dissimilar
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In terms of interests‚ how similar to your friends do you tend to be?
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Very similar
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Quite similar
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Not very similar
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Very dissimilar
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20
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How important is it to you what your friends think of you?
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Of no importance
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Of little importance
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Fairly important
Very important
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Of upmost importance
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21
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How important is it to you what strangers think of you?
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Of no importance
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Of little importance
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Fairly important
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Very important
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Of upmost importance
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22
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How easy do you find it to admit to your friends when you’re wrong?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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How easy to do you find it to tell a friend about your weaknesses and failures?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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24
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How easy do you find it to tell a friend about your achievements and successes?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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25
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How interested are you in the everyday details (e.g. their relationships‚ family‚ what’s currently going on in their lives) of your close friends’ lives?
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Completely disinterested
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Not very interested
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Quite interested
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Very interested
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How interested are you in the everyday details (e.g. their relationships‚ family‚ what’s currently going on in their lives) of your casual friends’ lives?
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Completely disinterested
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Not very interested
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Quite interested
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Very interested
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27
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When you are in a group‚ e.g. at work‚ school‚ church‚ parent group etc.‚ how important is it for you to know the “gossip” e.g. who dislikes who‚ who’s had a relationship with who‚ secrets.
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Of no importance
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Of little importance
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Fairly important
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Very important
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Of great importance
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28
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Do you work harder at your career than at maintaining your relationships with friends?
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Yes
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No
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Equal
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29
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How often do you make plans to meet with friends?
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Once or twice a year
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Once every 2 or 3 months
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Once a month
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Once every couple of weeks
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Once or twice a week
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3 or 4 times a week
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More than any of the above
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30
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How would you prefer to keep in touch with friends?
(Please put: 1 in the box next to your most preferred method
2 in the box next to your second preference
3 in the box next to your third preference)
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Face to face contact
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Email/letters
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Telephone calls
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How easy to do you find it to make new friends?
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Very easy
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Quite easy
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Not very easy
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Quite difficult
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Very difficult
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32
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What would be the minimum social contact you would need to get through a day?
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No contact – I don’t get lonely
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Just being near to people‚ even if I am not talking to them
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A casual chat‚ e.g.‚ with a shop assistant or hairdresser
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A chat with a friend
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Two or three chats with friends during the day
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More than any of the above
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33
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What would be the minimum social contact you would need to get through a week?
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None – I don’t get lonely
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Being around people‚ even if I wasn’t talking to them
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Casual chats‚ e.g. with a shop assistant or hairdresser
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One chat with a friend
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Two or three chats during the week with friends
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One chat every day with a friend
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Two or three chats every day with a friend
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More than any of the above
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34
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When talking with friends‚ what proportion of your time do you spend talking about the following:
(Please put: 1 in the box next to the topic that you talk most about‚
2 in the box next to the topic you talk next most about‚ etc‚ through to
7 in the box next to the topic you talk least about.
Use each number only once i.e. there should be no ties.)
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Politics and current affairs
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Hobbies and interests (eg. sport‚ TV‚ music‚ cinema‚ fashion‚ holidays‚ gardening‚ DIY etc.)
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Personal matters (e.g. life choice decisions‚ arguments‚ feelings)
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Work
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Family and friends
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The weather
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What you’ve been doing since last time you spoke
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At social occasions‚ when you meet someone for the first time‚ how likely are you to talk about the following.
(Please put: 1 in the box next to the topic that you talk most about‚
2 in the box next to the topic you talk next most about‚ etc‚ through to
7 in the box next to the topic you talk least about.
Use each number only once i.e. there should be no ties.)
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Politics and current affairs
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Hobbies and interests (e.g. sport‚ TV‚ music‚ cinema‚ fashion‚ holidays‚ gardening‚ DIY etc.)
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Personal matters (e.g. life choice decisions‚ arguments‚ feelings)
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Work
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Family and friends
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The weather
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What you’ve been doing recently
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Cite this article
Mohammed looti (2025). Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire. Psychological Scales & Instruments Database. Retrieved from https://db.arabpsychology.com/scales/cambridge-friendship-questionnaire/
Mohammed looti. "Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire." Psychological Scales & Instruments Database, 14 Oct. 2025, https://db.arabpsychology.com/scales/cambridge-friendship-questionnaire/.
Mohammed looti. "Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire." Psychological Scales & Instruments Database, 2025. https://db.arabpsychology.com/scales/cambridge-friendship-questionnaire/.
Mohammed looti (2025) 'Cambridge Friendship Questionnaire', Psychological Scales & Instruments Database. Available at: https://db.arabpsychology.com/scales/cambridge-friendship-questionnaire/.
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